Today's Philosophy ☆How to become an authority☆

What should I do to become the first person on the road?

All young people vaguely think that way.

To become the leading person on that road means to make a road in the wilderness.

I'm wandering in the wilderness and I'm about to dry up. lol

 

　　　　　　　　　　　　　　Shin Aonami

 

When I was young, I always wondered what I should do to become a leader in that field. I hated imitating other people. So I often tried to do something different.

 

To be the first person in the field means to do it for the first time in the world. So there is no precedent to refer to. If I don't get results all the time, I get really worried.

 

But when you look at it objectively and have confidence in it, you don't give up and move on. Sometimes I lose my self-confidence and think, “I should quit.” Even so, when you believe in yourself and don't give up and achieve your goal, your footprints in the wilderness will become everyone’s way.

 

I've been wandering around in the wilderness all this time, so I feel like I'm going to dry up. But I have a good wife, so I don't dry up. Although I’m henpecked completely. lol 

Today's Philosophy *Rock music*

 I think there are times when everyone is unmotivated.

When that happens, I listen to rock music while working.

Then my heart and body start to move along with the rhythm.

But I’m very tone-deaf when I sing. LoL

                                       Shin Aonami

Explanation

Do you have times when you don’t want to move? I do a lot. When that happens, I just lie on my bed and do nothing.

At times like this, I try to listen to rock music. Rock music makes my heart and body move along with the rhythm. I want everyone to try it too.

But I don’t always listen to rock music. I write novels, and when I want to concentrate, the lyrics of rock music get in the way. So when I get into my work and want to focus more, I listen to classical music. Lately, there is also rock-style strings music, so I listen to that a lot.

And at night, I often listen to jazz. Jazz has a calm melody that is perfect for the night. It calms me down and prepares me for sleep.

I can’t live without music, but when I sing myself, I’m very tone-deaf and can’t let anyone hear it. You’ll probably vomit if you hear my singing voice. LoL

Today's philosophy *Small talk*

Some people underestimate the value of small talk with others. They may stop for a while and talk about the weather or something meaningless. It may seem like a waste of time.

Some people may feel pressured to have something meaningful to say. But small talk doesn’t need any content. So there is no need to be nervous about having something meaningful to say when you talk.

Humans are social animals. We cannot live alone. I think small talk is about confirming the connection with each other by talking about trivial things.

By the way, in my case, I have a naughty nature, so I like dirty jokes. LoL.

Today's Philosophy *Diet*

I decided to go on a diet one day because I had a big belly. I thought I would record the data and post it on my blog. As I wrote the data in a table every day, I noticed that my weight did not decrease, but my waist did. At that time, the 400-yen measure that I bought to measure my waist looked shining. 

I think few people measure their waist while dieting. When you exercise, you lose fat but gain muscle. That’s how you shape your ideal style, but your weight doesn’t decrease. But if your goal is to tighten your waist, this is fine. 

When you diet, you should measure not only your weight but also your waist. I think many people who have just started dieting give up early because they can’t lose weight easily. But actually, I think your waist is gradually decreasing. It’s a shame to give up without noticing that. 

I have a big belly only. At first, this diet was full of motivation. But I’m lazy at heart, so I gave up halfway. My waist decreased from 41 inch to 39 inch, so what? LOL